Yuav txhawb koj tus menyuam hloov pauv li cas


Yuav txhawb koj tus menyuam hloov pauv li cas

“Qhov uas peb lees txais nws tus kheej tsis tau tshwm sim thaum hmo ntuj. Thaum xub thawj peb tsis ua nws hnyav. Peb tau sim qhia nws tias nws yuav yog tus tub hluas uas nws xav ua, coj yam nws xav ua, ua si nrog qhov nws xav tau.” tau lig ploj lawm qhov taw tes, thiab tsuas yog ua rau nws txawm tu siab, “nws ntxiv.

“Thaum kawg, nws tau mus rau lub ntsiab lus uas peb muaj ib tus menyuam nyuaj siab heev, uas xav tias nws niam thiab txiv tsis lees paub. Peb pom tias peb tau cia nws mus.”

Xyoo tsis ntev los no tau pom qhov kev nthuav dav tsis tu ncua ntawm cov teeb meem nyob ib ncig ntawm poj niam txiv neej tus kheej thiab cov neeg hloov pauv zoo li Sophie. Tu siab ho, tub los ntxhais ntau haiv neeg ntawm cov menyuam yaus thiab cov tub ntxhais hluas kuj tau dhau los ua cov ncauj lus nrov nrov ntawm kev sib cav sib ceg thiab kev siv tes sau – tshwj xeeb nyob ib puag ncig kev siv cov tshuaj thaiv kab mob los kho cov menyuam.

Raws li niam txiv, txhua lub suab nrov ntawd tsuas tuaj yeem ntxiv rau qhov kev txhawj xeeb thiab tsis meej pem uas koj yuav hnov ​​zoo dua yog tias koj tus menyuam nyuam qhuav qhia koj tias lawv tau nug lawv tus tub lossis ntxhais. Koj yuav tsis muaj kev ntseeg siab xav txhawb lawv txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws, tab sis nws kuj yog qhov ib txwm thiab nkag siab tau kom muaj cov lus nug thiab kev txhawj xeeb txog qhov cuam tshuam nws yuav muaj rau lawv lub neej.

Tswj tuav koj daim pib tawm tsam

“Cov niam txiv ib txwm txhawj xeeb txog seb lawv tus menyuam yuav raug kho li cas – uas lawv yuav raug thab, lossis lawv yuav tsis muaj haujlwm ua, ib tus khub, lossis lub neej,” hais tias Susie Green, CEO ntawm kev siab hlub Mermaids UK, uas hais txhawb kev ua haujlwm trans thiab poj niam txiv neej tsis sib haum.

“Qee lub sij hawm lawv txhawj xeeb tias lawv tau muab daim ntawv lees paub rau qee yam uas yuav tsuas yog ib theem. Ntau qhov ntawd yog los ntawm kev ntshai, thiab qhov ntawd yog qhov kev nkag siab tau zoo vim tias trans cov neeg tseem nyob txog 30 xyoo tom qab lub zog gay hais txog kev nkag siab. , lees paub thiab lees paub, “nws piav qhia.

Yog li koj tuaj yeem ua li cas yog tias koj tus menyuam tau qhib siab txog lawv tus tub los ntxhais yog leejtwg? Qhov tseem ceeb, Susie hais, yog yuav tsum mloog thiab lees paub tias lawv tab tom mus dab tsi. “Tso cai rau lawv qhia lawv tus kheej, khaws kev sib txuas lus, thiab ntseeg lawv, yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws rau tom ntej. Yog li koj ua tiav nrog cov menyuam yaus uas paub tias lawv tau hlub thiab txhawb nqa, tsis hais yuav tshwm sim dab tsi,” nws hais.

“Koj yuav xav kom muaj kev sib tham zoo li, ‘Koj tau hnov ​​ntev npaum li cas tau zoo li no?’ – tab sis zam kom nug lawv los ua pov thawj, lossis pov kev tsis txaus siab ntawm qhov tseeb ntawm nws. Ntawd cov lus nug tsis tu ncua thiab ua rau lees paub ntawm lawv tus kheej yog qhov ua rau puas tsuaj tiag tiag, ” Ib qho ntxiv, Yog tias koj tus menyuam raug xa mus rau cov kev pabcuam yog leejtwg tiag ntxiv ntawm kab, Susie piav qhia, cov lus nug yuav raug nug los ntawm kev ntsuas tus txheej txheem.

Qhia kom paub

Ua koj qhov kev tshawb fawb nyob ib ncig ntawm poj niam txiv neej dysphoria (lub npe muab rau cov neeg mob nrog) yuav pab tau koj thiab koj tus me nyuam kom paub txog lawv tus kheej thiab mus tom ntej.

“Kuv tsis xav tias leej twg yuav ‘xaiv’ rau lawv cov menyuam sib txawv ‘yam’ pom meej – tshwj xeeb ntawm txoj kev tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev tawm tsam – tab sis, yog tias tus menyuam muaj kev xav tau, ces peb txoj haujlwm li cov laus yog txhawb lawv txhua txoj kev uas peb tuaj yeem ua tau, “hais tias Dr Helen Webberley, uas yog tus tswj online online chaw kuaj mob pojniam txivneej GP.

“Muaj kev pab ntau heev rau cov niam txiv thiab cov tub ntxhais hluas hauv online, thiab cov chaw pab nyiaj GIRES thiab Mermaids muaj kev paub ntau, kev paub thiab tshawb fawb muaj,” nws hais ntxiv.

“Nco ntsoov ib yam nkaus, nrog kev nkag mus saib tau cov ntaub ntawv hauv Is Taws Nem, koj tus menyuam yuav siv sijhawm ntev los tshawb nrhiav thiab kawm, thiab tej zaum nws yuav paub zoo [lawv tus kheej].”

Cov kauj ruam txuas ntxiv thiab tshawb xyuas cov kev xaiv

Kev hloov hauv zej zog yog feem ntau thawj kauj ruam rau ntau tus menyuam hloov, thiab tuaj yeem yog lub sijhawm uas tsis yooj yim – tshwj xeeb nrog cov tsev kawm thiab cov phooj ywg uas tsis nkag siab lossis txhawb nqa kev hloov pauv ntawm koj tus menyuam cov npe, npe, hairstyle lossis khaub ncaws.

Raws li niam txiv, Joe hais tias, koj tuaj yeem pab txhawb koj tus menyuam los tshawb txog lawv tus tub los ntxhais yam tsis muaj lub tswv yim ua haujlwm tshwm sim. Nws hais tias “Cia lawv paub koj hlub lawv tus neeg twg lossis lawv tig los ua neeg, thiab lawv yuav pom lawv txoj hauv kev,” nws hais. “Cov no yog txhua yam pauv hloov ntawm sab saud thiab rov qab tau yooj yim; tus yuam sij yog xyuas kom koj tus menyuam paub tias muaj kev hlub thiab raug lees paub.”

Yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj hnub nyoog dhau los txog 8 lossis 9 xyoo, Mermaids UK pom zoo kom nrhiav kev xa mus los ntawm koj tus GP mus rau Gender Identity Development Service (GIDS), yog li lawv tuaj yeem txheeb xyuas tau sai dua tom qab.

“Cov txheej txheem yuav tsis tau nrawm dua, thiab cov tshuaj noj yuav tsis tau yooj yim. Nws tsim nyog nkag rau hauv qhov system ua ntej ntawd, yog tias koj tus menyuam pom tias muaj kev nkauj tiav nraug tiag, koj twb tau nyob hauv qhov chaw lawm,” Susie piav qhia Cov.

“Lub sijhawm tos tsuas yog rau thawj zaug teem sijhawm ntawm Tavistock GIDS yog ib xyoos, thiab tom qab ntawd cov txheej txheem kev txheeb xyuas, kev teem sijhawm, kuaj mob nws tus kheej, thiab xa mus rau cov kev pabcuam endocrine, txhais tau hais tias nws muaj txog ob xyoos nyob rau hauv tag nrho,” nws hais ntxiv.

Rau cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua 8 lossis 9 xyoo, Susie hais tias tsis tas yuav tsum tau nrhiav kev xa mus ntxiv – tshwj tsis yog koj tus menyuam muaj teeb meem tshwj xeeb, lossis cuam tshuam los ntawm kev pib ua hluas.

“Xav nrhiav kev txhawb nqa rau koj tus kheej uas yog niam txiv,” nws pom zoo. “Mermaids muaj kev pabcuam hauv tebchaws thiab kev pabcuam email, thiab peb tau muaj cov pab pawg niam txiv online online muaj ze li ntawm 1,300 tus niam txiv, uas tabtom sib cuam tshuam nrog tib yam nkaus koj.”

Nrhiav qauv qauv

Joe kuj tseem pom zoo kom hais lus rau cov neeg pauv hloov ntawm cov neeg laus txog lawv qhov kev paub dhau los, kom nkag siab zoo dua thiab muaj kev xav txog koj tus menyuam lub neej kev ua neej yuav zoo li cas. Nws hais tias, “Mermaids khiav lub sijhawm hnub so nyob hauv tsev laus, uas cov niam txiv tuaj yeem ntsib lwm tsev neeg, thiab lwm tus menyuam trans thiab cov hluas,” nws hais.

“Nws yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog kom tau raws li cov hluas trans cov laus uas qee zaum rov los pab cov tsev neeg tshiab – cov neeg uas tau txais kev txhawb nqa los ntawm Mermaids ua menyuam yaus, tab sis tam sim no muaj kev zoo siab thiab ua lub neej muaj kev vam meej li cov neeg laus. Qhov no muab kev txhawj xeeb thiab ntshai tsev neeg vam tias lawv cov menyuam yuav pom lawv txoj hauv kev, “nws ntxiv.

Ntawm daim ntawv ntawd, Susie hais tias: “Nws tseem ceeb kom nco ntsoov tias qhov no tsis yog kev raug txim lub neej – thiab ntau tus qauv hloov peb loj hlob nrog cov tsev neeg muaj kev txhawb nqa. Tam sim no lawv zoo siab, lawv tau txais kev ua haujlwm, koom tes, thiab lawv ‘ rov tau nrog lawv lub neej. “

* Cov npe tau hloov pauv los tiv thaiv tus kheej

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