Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj nug koj txog kev sib deev


Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj nug koj txog kev sib deev

Tsis yog txhua tus tsuas yog nyiam rau cov neeg sib deev txawv xwb. Thiab cov neeg uas yog (ncaj neeg) tuaj yeem yog nyob ntawm poob. Thoob plaws txhua lub hnub nyoog, ONS tau sau tseg tias ‘kev nthuav dav tseem ceeb’ hauv cov neeg pom tias yog poj niam nyiam poj niam, poj niam nyiam poj niam lossis poj niam nyiam sib deev, nrog 2% ntawm cov pej xeem hauv 2016 kev txiav txim siab rau lawv tus kheej xws li, piv nrog 1.7% xyoo ua ntej. Thiab hauv 2015 YouGov daim ntawv ntsuam xyuas, tsuas yog 46% ntawm 16-25-xyoo-laus tau txhais lawv tus kheej tias ncaj kiag li.

Yog tias koj tam sim no nug koj cov kev paub txog kev sib deev, koj nyob hauv cov tuam txhab zoo. Tab sis qhov ntawd tsis tas yuav ua rau nws tsis tshua ntshai.

Kev nkag siab tsis meej txog kev ua nkauj nraug

Muaj ntau ntau zaj dab neeg hais txog kev ua plees ua yi, tawm hauv ntau ntawm peb tsis meej pem. Cov kws qhia txog kev sib daj sib deev Meg-John Barker thiab Justin Hancock, uas muaj cov ntaub ntawv tshaj tawm txog kev sib deev thiab kev sib raug zoo, piav qhia tias ib qho kev xav tsis meej tshaj plaws txog kev sib deev yog tias nws tsuas yog hais txog tus tub los ntxhais uas peb nyiam. Ib qho ntxiv yog tias yog tias koj pom koj tus kheej fancying ib tug neeg ntawm tib poj niam txiv neej, nws txhais tau tias koj nyob nraum twv yuav raug hu gay.

“Hmoov tsis zoo txog kev kho mob, kws kho mob hlwb thiab kws kho mob los ntawm lub sijhawm xyoo pua cuaj xyoo pib txij thaum ntawd los txog qhov kev xav tias qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws txog peb kev sib deev yog seb peb tau sib deev nrog txiv neej lossis poj niam,” qhia tus duo, uas nws phau ntawv ‘Txaus siab rau txiv neej’ lub hom phiaj yog qhia kev coj mus rau cov lus tsis meej pem feem ntau ntawm kev sib deev thiab kev sib deev.

Tab sis qhov tseeb tiag, ntau tus neeg nyiam nrog ntau dua ib tus poj niam txiv neej (bisexuality), lossis pom tias tus tub los ntxhais tsis tseem ceeb rau cov neeg uas lawv nyiam (pansexuality).

“Qhov kev xav no tseem tawm ntau lwm qhov tseem ceeb ntawm peb qhov kev sib deev, xws li peb xav tias muaj kev sib deev zoo li cas yog tias txhua lub luag haujlwm twg peb nyiam coj kev sib deev, yam kev xav uas peb nyiam, thiab hom kev npau suav twg peb muaj,” piav qhia Barker thiab Hancock.

Ib qho dab neeg lwm tus hais tias kev plees kev yi thiab poj niam txiv neej yog tib qho. Tus neeg yog pojniam lossis txivneej yog hais txog ib tus neeg paub nws tus kheej pojniam txivneej, tsis hais tus txiv neej, pojniam, lossis tsis yog binary. Qhov no yuav sib raug rau cov kev sib deev tso thaum yug (cis) lossis nws yuav tsis (hla – ‘T’ hauv LGBT). Ib tus neeg hloov pauv tuaj yeem yog ncaj, gay, bisexual los yog asexual.

Yuav ua li cas ib txwm muaj yog nws xav tias koj nyob nraum LGBT?

Qee tus neeg paub tias lawv yog gay, poj niam nyiam poj niam lossis me me thaum lawv tseem yau, thaum lwm tus neeg yuav tsis paub txog tom qab lub neej. Barker thiab Hancock hais tias nws tsis tshua muaj neeg tsis meej pem txog koj txoj kev sib daj sib deev, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog muab cov lus tsis sib haum xeeb txog kab lis kev cai peb tau txais txog kev sib deev.

“Peb qhia nyob rau hauv phau ntawv qhia kev sib deev uas pom tias kev sib deev sib luag ntawm chaw mos nkag mus rau qhov chaw mos, thaum qhov tseeb muaj ntau txhiab txoj kev ntawm kev sib deev (ib leeg thiab nrog lwm tus) uas tsis koom nrog qhov no, thiab uas ntau tus neeg nyiam ntau lossis ntau dua . Ntawm ib nrab ntawm cov neeg qhia tias lawv muaj teeb meem kev sib deev ntawm kev soj ntsuam hauv lub teb chaws, thaum qee zaum nws yog qhov kev nkag siab tsawg tsawg ntawm kev suav nrog kev sib deev uas yog ib feem ntawm cov teeb meem. “

Kuv puas yuav tau xaiv ib daim ntawv lo?

‘Pansexual’, ‘sapiosexual’, ‘demisexual’. Xyoo tsis ntev los no, tau muaj kev nthuav dav loj ntawm cov ntawv tshiab nyob ib puag ncig kev sib deev – nrog cov ntsiab lus los piav qhia ntau hom bisexuality, asexuality thiab hom txiv neej nyiam. Cov npe no tuaj yeem pab tau, hais Barker thiab Hancock, thaum lawv txhawb ntxiv tias qhov kev sib deev muaj ntau yam. Kev muab cov lus rau cov neeg uas pab lawv ua kom paub txog lawv cov kev paub yog qhov zoo heev. Tab sis muaj qee qhov poob qis cov ntawv cim npe ib yam nkaus.

“Qhov tsis zoo ntawm daim ntawv lo yog thaum peb tuav lawv nruj thiab ntseeg tias peb tau daig rau hauv qhov chaw ntawd thaum peb tau sau npe rau peb tus kheej. Tab sis nws zoo los nrhiav ib daim ntawv lo haum rau ib pliag thiab tom qab ntawd pom nws tsis haum Yog li ntawd qhov tseem ceeb dhau sijhawm, lossis cov ntawv sib txawv haum tau zoo dua .Txhua nws tseem ceeb kom nco ntsoov tias txhua daim ntawv lo tseem muaj ntau yam kev sib txawv ntawm kev sib deev thiab kev sib daj sib deev. poj niam sib deev, piv txwv. “

Kuv puas yuav tsum ‘tawm tuaj’?

‘Tawm tawm’ txhais tau tias koom nrog lwm tus hais tias koj yog poj niam nyiam poj niam, poj niam nyiam poj niam, bisexual los yog trans.

LGBT kev siab hlub Stonewall UK hais tias: “Tus txheej txheem ntawm kev tawm yuav txawv heev rau txhua tus neeg thiab nws tuaj yeem siv qee lub sijhawm kom txog rau qhov chaw uas koj xis nyob thiab muaj kev ntseeg siab txaus kom muaj kev sib tham nrog tib neeg.”

Barker thiab Hancock kev ntxhov siab hais tias tsis muaj leej twg yuav tsum tau yuam koj kom tawm los.

“Tshaj tawm tuaj yeem yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev lees paub koj qhov kev sib deev, tab sis nws yog qhov tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov
tias nws yog qhov kev nyab xeeb dua thiab muaj kev paub zoo rau qee tus neeg dua li nws yog rau lwm tus. Yog li, txawm li cas los yog tawm los – thiab dab tsi los tawm – yuav tsum yog koj qhov kev txiav txim siab tas mus li. “

Yog tias nws xav tias yuav muaj kev pheej hmoo rau koj ua li ntawd, tab sis koj xav ua dab tsi rau ib qho twg, lawv xav kom koj nrhiav kev txhawb nqa ua ntej. Muaj hmoov zoo yog qee cov LGBT cov chaw pab tshwj xeeb hauv tebchaws Askiv.

“Cov pib zoo yog Stonewall UK, Gendered Intelligence, Bisexual Index, LGBT Foundation (hauv Manchester), thiab London Friend (hauv London), tab sis muaj ntau ntxiv
uas cov koomhaum no tuaj yeem taw tes rau koj, “hais Barker thiab Hancock.

Nco ntsoov, tsis muaj qhov ‘coj’

Nws yog qhov yooj yim kom txaj muag nyob ib puag ncig nyiam kev sib deev, tab sis Barker thiab Hancock qhia meej tias xijpeem koj pom tias koj nyob hauv kev sib deev yog qhov zoo kiag li ntev raws li koj ib txwm coj tus yam tsis zoo nrog lwm tus neeg. Thiab nco ntsoov, txawm tias tsis muaj kev pheej hmoo rau cev xeeb tub thaum koj ntsib kev sib deev, koj tseem yuav tsum xav txog kev tiv thaiv kabmob STIs.

“Qhov no yog qhov muaj txiaj ntsig zoo thiab ua siab loj rau txoj kev taug mus thiab koj tuaj yeem kawm paub ntau yam txog koj tus kheej thiab koj txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus neeg los ntawm nws. “Lawv xaus.

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